Title: Weird Marriage with in a family Part -1
Hi My name is pushpa here i am presenting you what happened in my life, how i got married 2 times that too Accidentaly with my own son, this is a long story will be published in parts , so lets begin with my life
i am from a Tribal community from Karnataka , i was married at a early age of 16 as per my community rituals with the same community guy , my hubsand Param was 20 then , even though we are from tribal community we got good education. till my SSLC we were lived in our tribe only, after one year of my marriage we had our kid a cute boy we named him as Arun.
Aftter 2 years of marriage we were shifted our location to nearby city by government rules, most of our relatives were moved to some other cities, then me and my husband started find job and we were lucky to find job in a nearby college, my husband get the security personnel job and i selected as a group D clerk , with the motivation of the principal of that college we both continued our education in distant mode and became Bank managers in 2 different Banks .
At the age of 25 & 29 , and our life move on like that we growned like anything we bought bunglaw we were happily living with our inlaws ( Raman FIL , Leela MIL) and my husband's sister Renu and our cute litle son, soon we got Renu married to our comminity guy Raju and he also living with us, my Inlaws were very religious and strict about Caste and religious factors, at the age of 35 i decided to buy a house to my parents with my savings i wanted them to setle in my city only ,but my husband didnt agreed for this even with his opposition i bought house to my parents this made my husband angry , this anger grows between us and ended in divorce , my son was 18 then and studying in PUC And in the court he decided to live with me, me and my husband were so angry and didnt listen to any of our parents we were seperated.
Me and my son started to live with my parents along with my brother and his wife, we both dont have any bad feelings or incest wish at that time we were just normal mother and son, now my son is 22 completed is Post Graduation and he is in love with a girl (Neha) of our community ( My father inlaw used to tell him about our tradition and community so he also respect our tradition ) his love was started when he was in PU and its 8 years love . he used to tell everything happening in his life and love i used to encourage him with his love i taught him how to respect women , he is such a good boy with zero Bad Habbits.
Suddenly my son was looking sad and not behaving normally so i asked him what happened he started crying all of a sudden and told his girlfriend Parents were looking for a groom to get his girlfriend married. I was shocked and consoled him dont worry we can go to her house and talk to her parents but my son stopped me telling Amma They wont agree i already talk to them, i asked why they wont agree we have assets bank balance you are educated and also from same community whats the problem to them, after lot of forces he told that her parents dont want to give their Daughter to a divorced family. I felt bad due to my reason my son is loosing his 8 year love, i consoled him and told him to trust me i will get his marriae fixed and went to Neha's house to convince her parents, they were so reluctant , after lot force anf request from and Neha they agreed to the marriage on one condition that is i have to re marry my husband Param then only they will agree to this marriage , i agreed without thinking anything, and straight away went to my inlaws house and shared this matter with my Husband and with inlaws , i convinced my husband saying to save our only sons love Life we need to do this he also agreed after lot of forces. I convey this matter with Neha's parents and went to my home to surprise my son, he is very happy after listening this because he is getting his longtime love and his parents getting married again.
All the parents for both the marriage went to our old native place wr our Tribal temple is located to get the muhurath fixed for me and my husband re marriage and Arun Neha'e marriage ( government didnt relocate that temple to save our religious belief)
The temple priest told that there is only one muhurath on next friday and both marriages should happen at a time and no other muhurath for another one year, so we all agreed and went back to our city for the preperation, both Neha and Arun Are excited with the marriage date and hugged infront of us i turned back and told them wait for few daus guys dont do any silly acts before that, my son told mom u growned me very well with morrals and Values i respect women alot i didnt even kissed Neha till now you can ask her my love is very Pure, i felt happy and proud about my son .
Next day we decided to shopping for the wedding , for me and my husband its just a formality for the sake of our son and all the family went for shopping me and Arun decided to buy simple dress but Neha and Arun insisted that any how as per our tradition we have to marry in our tribal temple why dont we spend more money atleast for the dress lets all buy same kind of dresses, Arun told me and dad will buy same color kurtha you and Neha buy same color traditional Lehanga, so we agreed to buy the same and everyone shocked while the shop taylors get the measurements , because Me and Neha have same height physic and Arun and his father have same height and meaurements, we finished all our shopping and the day came which changed all our life.
Let me tell something about our tribal marriage both the Bride and groom will be covered their face with flowers hanging till neck and both are not allowed to see each other till marriage hence its 2 marriage happening after lot of years we invited all our relatives of our tribe ,
And there were 2 mantaps prepared for wedding as per our tradition Groom will be sitting readily in mantap and bride should sit opposite to the Groom after circling 3 rounds around Mantap i was lead by my Sisterinlaw Renu to Mantap and Neha was leaded by her mother, i circled 3 times around the mantap and sat infront of my husband after the priest chant the manthra my husband tied the Mangalsuthra around my neck and we walked around the fire 7 times by tying ends of our clothes after that were asked to come out and informed to see our face in the mirror kept beside the god , at a time both the couples came out and went to see our face in the 2 mirrors kept for 2 couples and when we saw at a time all the 4 of us ( me my son my husband and neha ) shocked and shouted oh my god , no what the hell happened we completely removed the flower which covered our face and all the relatives and parents were shocked.
Yes your Guess is right!!!
I was married to my son and Neha married to Param, as the dress and physic were same to same none of us get doubt about the partner we strongly believed the person who lead us to the mantap, everyone started gossiping and talking to each other a son tied mangalsuthra to his mother what will happen now etc etc Neha Arun and me started crying then Param insisted lets remove thaalis and get married again to the right partner , but The preiest. And some elders including Neha's parents stopped us once the marriage happen its happened no changes will be made at all , i shouted how can i marry my son its done by mistake give us another chance , one elder from the relative shouted yes its a mistake but both you and Param's mistake you broke our tradition and got Divorced so its a curse on your head and this thing happened, another elder joined his voice no matter of relationship you are married now and you have to maintain this relationship now. My son started to beg all of them nobody is listening he got hold of Neha's hand and announced i will marry Neha i cant leave her but all of a sudden Neha's father slapped my son and told my daughter's matrige is over now she married your father and she is like mother to you see your wife is their your own mother go to her and live with her forget my daughter. I dont care about the age Mr Param is my. Son inlaw now and he is Neha's husband. My son fell on ground and crying shouting like anything but no one came to rescue us from this situation even my inlwas and parents as they are old Generation they also believed what happened is gods curse instead of convincing the elders they were convincing us to continue with this marriage , we were forced and threatened by the words of traditions curse ,
We were foced to move to our houses and the news spread rappidly
My inlaws invited me and my son to their house as newly wed couples because he lost me as mother by marrying me so he has only parent and the newly wed couple should stepin to inlaws house at first.
My son is looking like tottaly lost he constantly looking at Neha but her wet eyes never looked at arun Neha's parents warned her to treat Param as husband forgot Arun's love hence he became her son by relationship.
We were welcomed by Renu and my Ex MIL Leela ( i have married to my own son now and i am my own motherinlaw)
First they welcomed Param and Neha ,
Neha kicked the rice bowl and stepped into the house in my place and she became my motherinlaw now Neha is insisted to welcome me and Arun as her son and daughter inlaw i stepped in to the same family as a daughter in law second time. I can see continues eyedrops from Arun's eyes.
Me And Neha Performed Pooja and other customs as new brides and then comes the another custom that a bride has to clean her husbands feet with water and take blessing from him i was hesitant at first but i dont have a chance my son(now my husband) sat on a chair i put a wessel under his feet Neha also followed my actions and then i poured water on my son's feet and cleaned it with water then put some flower on the feet take the flower back and kept it on my hait knot Neha followed it as it is and then i touched my son's feet at this moment i am feeling Arun as my husband than my son, but Arun not concentrating on anything keep on looking at Neha his dad now called Arun's name and informed Him son Stop looking at my wife now she is not your Girlfriend She is your step mother, now you have your own wife have a look at her, my son was heartbroken now, and then the next custom Neha's mother told Neha to take blessing of your Inlaws along with your husband , now Param and neha fell on My Ex inlaws feet and took blessing, and then my mother told me to do the same i took blessing from my ex inlaws along with arun They Blessed me Dheergasumangali Bhava ( long blessed married life )& sheegra meva puthra prapthirasthu ( get pregnant soon)
I felt shy and then again my mother insited to take blessing from my inlaws i told her i took na right now but mother told me they are your Ajja ajji ( Grand Father and mother ) take Blessing from your Aththe & Mava ( Neha and Param) eventhough Neha is younger to me in age she becomes Arun's step mother and i became her daughter inlaw, how mean it is one small mistake ruined all of our life the girl who has to become daughter inlaw becomes my mother inlaw and i became wife to my own son, everyone seeing this marriage in the tradition point of view not in the point of a mother , how can a mother treat her son as husband nobody cared about it not even my parents, we all have been trapped and there is no moveon I think Param is the only Happiest Victim of this weird marriage.
Now its the time for First night when i heard about it i argued like let this marriage on and dont force us to do this, this is a sin , but Param insisted to go for the preperation i think he fell for Neha's beauty and want to explore her, No matter how much i argued Evreryone forced us and prepared 2 bed rooms for First Night celebration, in the same life i am entering a first night Room for the 2nd time and the worst thing the husband is my own son, when i went in Arun is sitting on bed so sadly when i saw me came running to me and started crying hugging me i kept the milk on table and consoled him and told him call Neha now and escape from here go to unknown place live happily as husband and wife he like the idea and immediately called Neha but his bad luck his dad pick the call and aksed him in a rough tone why you called my wife at wrong time, Arun begged him to give phone to Neha, Param reluctantly gave phone to Neha, Arun told about my idea but Neha told Arun forget me and move on with your own life its over for ever but Arun Begged her like anything but Neha cut the call.
Arun went to their room all of a sudden and called neha from outside i too followed him but his father opened the door and scold him he told Arun that now Neha is my wife and right now i am going go celeberate my first night with her you get lost from here by listening this Arun tried to get in to the room but his father pushed him and lockef the door from inside , all the family members came and His Grand pa and Neha's father scold Arun for his behavior , my mother insisted me to console Arun i told her how can i console her Amma, then she said as a mother you cant console heartbroken Boy , being his wife you can console him this is the only way go ahead stop them to scold your Husband do anything to bring back smile on your son shh sorry your husnand face.
Now i too wiped my eyes and went to Arun Picked him up and took him to our Room.
Hi My name is pushpa here i am presenting you what happened in my life, how i got married 2 times that too Accidentaly with my own son, this is a long story will be published in parts , so lets begin with my life
i am from a Tribal community from Karnataka , i was married at a early age of 16 as per my community rituals with the same community guy , my hubsand Param was 20 then , even though we are from tribal community we got good education. till my SSLC we were lived in our tribe only, after one year of my marriage we had our kid a cute boy we named him as Arun.
Aftter 2 years of marriage we were shifted our location to nearby city by government rules, most of our relatives were moved to some other cities, then me and my husband started find job and we were lucky to find job in a nearby college, my husband get the security personnel job and i selected as a group D clerk , with the motivation of the principal of that college we both continued our education in distant mode and became Bank managers in 2 different Banks .
At the age of 25 & 29 , and our life move on like that we growned like anything we bought bunglaw we were happily living with our inlaws ( Raman FIL , Leela MIL) and my husband's sister Renu and our cute litle son, soon we got Renu married to our comminity guy Raju and he also living with us, my Inlaws were very religious and strict about Caste and religious factors, at the age of 35 i decided to buy a house to my parents with my savings i wanted them to setle in my city only ,but my husband didnt agreed for this even with his opposition i bought house to my parents this made my husband angry , this anger grows between us and ended in divorce , my son was 18 then and studying in PUC And in the court he decided to live with me, me and my husband were so angry and didnt listen to any of our parents we were seperated.
Me and my son started to live with my parents along with my brother and his wife, we both dont have any bad feelings or incest wish at that time we were just normal mother and son, now my son is 22 completed is Post Graduation and he is in love with a girl (Neha) of our community ( My father inlaw used to tell him about our tradition and community so he also respect our tradition ) his love was started when he was in PU and its 8 years love . he used to tell everything happening in his life and love i used to encourage him with his love i taught him how to respect women , he is such a good boy with zero Bad Habbits.
Suddenly my son was looking sad and not behaving normally so i asked him what happened he started crying all of a sudden and told his girlfriend Parents were looking for a groom to get his girlfriend married. I was shocked and consoled him dont worry we can go to her house and talk to her parents but my son stopped me telling Amma They wont agree i already talk to them, i asked why they wont agree we have assets bank balance you are educated and also from same community whats the problem to them, after lot of forces he told that her parents dont want to give their Daughter to a divorced family. I felt bad due to my reason my son is loosing his 8 year love, i consoled him and told him to trust me i will get his marriae fixed and went to Neha's house to convince her parents, they were so reluctant , after lot force anf request from and Neha they agreed to the marriage on one condition that is i have to re marry my husband Param then only they will agree to this marriage , i agreed without thinking anything, and straight away went to my inlaws house and shared this matter with my Husband and with inlaws , i convinced my husband saying to save our only sons love Life we need to do this he also agreed after lot of forces. I convey this matter with Neha's parents and went to my home to surprise my son, he is very happy after listening this because he is getting his longtime love and his parents getting married again.
All the parents for both the marriage went to our old native place wr our Tribal temple is located to get the muhurath fixed for me and my husband re marriage and Arun Neha'e marriage ( government didnt relocate that temple to save our religious belief)
The temple priest told that there is only one muhurath on next friday and both marriages should happen at a time and no other muhurath for another one year, so we all agreed and went back to our city for the preperation, both Neha and Arun Are excited with the marriage date and hugged infront of us i turned back and told them wait for few daus guys dont do any silly acts before that, my son told mom u growned me very well with morrals and Values i respect women alot i didnt even kissed Neha till now you can ask her my love is very Pure, i felt happy and proud about my son .
Next day we decided to shopping for the wedding , for me and my husband its just a formality for the sake of our son and all the family went for shopping me and Arun decided to buy simple dress but Neha and Arun insisted that any how as per our tradition we have to marry in our tribal temple why dont we spend more money atleast for the dress lets all buy same kind of dresses, Arun told me and dad will buy same color kurtha you and Neha buy same color traditional Lehanga, so we agreed to buy the same and everyone shocked while the shop taylors get the measurements , because Me and Neha have same height physic and Arun and his father have same height and meaurements, we finished all our shopping and the day came which changed all our life.
Let me tell something about our tribal marriage both the Bride and groom will be covered their face with flowers hanging till neck and both are not allowed to see each other till marriage hence its 2 marriage happening after lot of years we invited all our relatives of our tribe ,
And there were 2 mantaps prepared for wedding as per our tradition Groom will be sitting readily in mantap and bride should sit opposite to the Groom after circling 3 rounds around Mantap i was lead by my Sisterinlaw Renu to Mantap and Neha was leaded by her mother, i circled 3 times around the mantap and sat infront of my husband after the priest chant the manthra my husband tied the Mangalsuthra around my neck and we walked around the fire 7 times by tying ends of our clothes after that were asked to come out and informed to see our face in the mirror kept beside the god , at a time both the couples came out and went to see our face in the 2 mirrors kept for 2 couples and when we saw at a time all the 4 of us ( me my son my husband and neha ) shocked and shouted oh my god , no what the hell happened we completely removed the flower which covered our face and all the relatives and parents were shocked.
Yes your Guess is right!!!
I was married to my son and Neha married to Param, as the dress and physic were same to same none of us get doubt about the partner we strongly believed the person who lead us to the mantap, everyone started gossiping and talking to each other a son tied mangalsuthra to his mother what will happen now etc etc Neha Arun and me started crying then Param insisted lets remove thaalis and get married again to the right partner , but The preiest. And some elders including Neha's parents stopped us once the marriage happen its happened no changes will be made at all , i shouted how can i marry my son its done by mistake give us another chance , one elder from the relative shouted yes its a mistake but both you and Param's mistake you broke our tradition and got Divorced so its a curse on your head and this thing happened, another elder joined his voice no matter of relationship you are married now and you have to maintain this relationship now. My son started to beg all of them nobody is listening he got hold of Neha's hand and announced i will marry Neha i cant leave her but all of a sudden Neha's father slapped my son and told my daughter's matrige is over now she married your father and she is like mother to you see your wife is their your own mother go to her and live with her forget my daughter. I dont care about the age Mr Param is my. Son inlaw now and he is Neha's husband. My son fell on ground and crying shouting like anything but no one came to rescue us from this situation even my inlwas and parents as they are old Generation they also believed what happened is gods curse instead of convincing the elders they were convincing us to continue with this marriage , we were forced and threatened by the words of traditions curse ,
We were foced to move to our houses and the news spread rappidly
My inlaws invited me and my son to their house as newly wed couples because he lost me as mother by marrying me so he has only parent and the newly wed couple should stepin to inlaws house at first.
My son is looking like tottaly lost he constantly looking at Neha but her wet eyes never looked at arun Neha's parents warned her to treat Param as husband forgot Arun's love hence he became her son by relationship.
We were welcomed by Renu and my Ex MIL Leela ( i have married to my own son now and i am my own motherinlaw)
First they welcomed Param and Neha ,
Neha kicked the rice bowl and stepped into the house in my place and she became my motherinlaw now Neha is insisted to welcome me and Arun as her son and daughter inlaw i stepped in to the same family as a daughter in law second time. I can see continues eyedrops from Arun's eyes.
Me And Neha Performed Pooja and other customs as new brides and then comes the another custom that a bride has to clean her husbands feet with water and take blessing from him i was hesitant at first but i dont have a chance my son(now my husband) sat on a chair i put a wessel under his feet Neha also followed my actions and then i poured water on my son's feet and cleaned it with water then put some flower on the feet take the flower back and kept it on my hait knot Neha followed it as it is and then i touched my son's feet at this moment i am feeling Arun as my husband than my son, but Arun not concentrating on anything keep on looking at Neha his dad now called Arun's name and informed Him son Stop looking at my wife now she is not your Girlfriend She is your step mother, now you have your own wife have a look at her, my son was heartbroken now, and then the next custom Neha's mother told Neha to take blessing of your Inlaws along with your husband , now Param and neha fell on My Ex inlaws feet and took blessing, and then my mother told me to do the same i took blessing from my ex inlaws along with arun They Blessed me Dheergasumangali Bhava ( long blessed married life )& sheegra meva puthra prapthirasthu ( get pregnant soon)
I felt shy and then again my mother insited to take blessing from my inlaws i told her i took na right now but mother told me they are your Ajja ajji ( Grand Father and mother ) take Blessing from your Aththe & Mava ( Neha and Param) eventhough Neha is younger to me in age she becomes Arun's step mother and i became her daughter inlaw, how mean it is one small mistake ruined all of our life the girl who has to become daughter inlaw becomes my mother inlaw and i became wife to my own son, everyone seeing this marriage in the tradition point of view not in the point of a mother , how can a mother treat her son as husband nobody cared about it not even my parents, we all have been trapped and there is no moveon I think Param is the only Happiest Victim of this weird marriage.
Now its the time for First night when i heard about it i argued like let this marriage on and dont force us to do this, this is a sin , but Param insisted to go for the preperation i think he fell for Neha's beauty and want to explore her, No matter how much i argued Evreryone forced us and prepared 2 bed rooms for First Night celebration, in the same life i am entering a first night Room for the 2nd time and the worst thing the husband is my own son, when i went in Arun is sitting on bed so sadly when i saw me came running to me and started crying hugging me i kept the milk on table and consoled him and told him call Neha now and escape from here go to unknown place live happily as husband and wife he like the idea and immediately called Neha but his bad luck his dad pick the call and aksed him in a rough tone why you called my wife at wrong time, Arun begged him to give phone to Neha, Param reluctantly gave phone to Neha, Arun told about my idea but Neha told Arun forget me and move on with your own life its over for ever but Arun Begged her like anything but Neha cut the call.
Arun went to their room all of a sudden and called neha from outside i too followed him but his father opened the door and scold him he told Arun that now Neha is my wife and right now i am going go celeberate my first night with her you get lost from here by listening this Arun tried to get in to the room but his father pushed him and lockef the door from inside , all the family members came and His Grand pa and Neha's father scold Arun for his behavior , my mother insisted me to console Arun i told her how can i console her Amma, then she said as a mother you cant console heartbroken Boy , being his wife you can console him this is the only way go ahead stop them to scold your Husband do anything to bring back smile on your son shh sorry your husnand face.
Now i too wiped my eyes and went to Arun Picked him up and took him to our Room.
